Showing posts with label survivor. Show all posts
Showing posts with label survivor. Show all posts

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Curry poison survivor tells of ordeal


The woman who survived being poisoned by the jilted lover of her fiance has told BBC Asian Network of the emotional scars the episode has left.


Gurjeet Choongh, of Southall, west London, was saved after eating the same curry as Lakhvinder Cheema, who died after his food had been poisoned.

Ex-lover Lakhvir Singh was convicted of murder in February and sentenced to serve a minimum of 23 years.

"I feel very tense and that my life has stopped," said Miss Choongh.

Queen of poisons

"First you think you will get married and start a new life but this changed it all.

"I still have those memories of my future with him, but he has gone and it is finished.

"I constantly think about what my future is going to be and about what has happened and it makes me very upset."

Mr Cheema, nicknamed Lucky, and Ms Singh had been lovers for 16 years before the 39-year-old became engaged to Miss Choongh, 22, in November 2008.

At the trial, the jury heard Ms Singh could not bear the thought of her lover's marriage and went to his house to put Indian aconite, known as the queen of poisons, into his food.

I didn't see her but the people who were renting the house saw her," said Miss Choongh.

"The lodger said she (Ms Singh) went to the fridge, got the Tupperware container and apparently mixed something which he didn't see into the food before putting it back.

"He told her that I was there and she quickly left the house."

Miss Choongh and Mr Cheema later ate the curry and, while he died in hospital, Miss Choongh was saved.

She was in a coma for two days while doctors traced the poison and gave her an antidote.

Ms Singh was cleared of attempting to murder Miss Choongh but was guilty of causing her grievous bodily harm with intent.

Spurned

"Lucky had said to Lakhvir that he would not get married to anyone else apart from her," said Miss Choongh, who was speaking through a translator.

"I had met Lakhvir in Lucky's house and I spoke to her. She told me that their relatives were aware that they were lovers.

"(After my engagement to Lucky) I explained to Lakhvir that she had three children and a husband who was ill in hospital but she said she could not control her feelings for Lakhvinder.

"Once, she came and I had a heart-to-heart with her and then I challenged Lucky on it. He just said she was bragging about it."

Mr Cheema's sister had acted as an intermediary in arranging her brother's marriage to Miss Choongh.

"I made a decision very quickly and hastily," recalled Miss Choongh, who now lives in a safe house.

"I regret that. In hindsight if I had another opportunity I could have challenged what Lucky's sister had said about him and maybe got to the bottom of it before I made the decision to marry him."

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Thursday, March 4, 2010

Chile quake survivor describes fear amid Talca curfew


Troops in Chile are struggling to contain looting in some of the areas worst hit by Saturday's huge earthquake. Luis Felipe Ramirez Rojas is in Talca, which is about 200km (125 miles) from the epicentre of the quake.

Here, he describes the situation on the ground as his city struggles to recover and keep order days after the quake hit.

I am happy to be alive but it is really awful to see my city of Talca like this. Our city was badly damaged in the quake, particularly the old part of the town.

We are not the worst-hit, but it is still hard on us. It was a very scary experience.

The day after the quake we heard that 85 people had been killed here, but have not been given any updates on the number of dead since.

One nightclub collapsed and around 10 people were killed inside
I saw three bodies being pulled from the rubble the next morning and laid out on the street in front of me.

My family's home was badly damaged but did not collapse.

We managed to save some of our furniture because it is still standing.

My family and I had to go stay with my aunt, whose house is newer and was not badly damaged.

Our neighbours protected our house from being looted by taking over the corners of each of the surrounding streets to keep out the looters.

There was looting going on in the first day or two but our neighbours kept the robbers away.

The military arrived on Monday to take control and are patrolling the streets, after imposing a curfew between midnight and 0600.

But our neighbours remain on the streets with them, after receiving permits to stay out on the corners at night.

The government is telling us it will help us to rebuild our houses, so hopefully we can recover.

We went two days without electricity and water but now it has been restored in my aunt's area of town.

Some of my friends are still without water and electricity supplies, so I have told them to come over and use our facilities if they need to.

Thankfully, all of my friends and family are fine, but they are scared.

The hospital here was damaged - part of it collapsed - so a temporary hospital is being put up to receive people from nearby areas.

They are only treating emergencies.

Help is not really getting out to us fast, but there are others worse off than us.

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Chile quake survivor tells of chaos in Concepcion


Ricardo Leon returns to Concepcion to find not only camaraderie among neighbours, but also criminal elements in their midst. Here is his latest account.

went to Concepcion today and the city is still in a state of chaos. But it is more secure and protected than ever before thanks to the thousands of soldiers that have being posted to keep the peace in the city.


Looting has being reduced, but there are still some places attacked as soon as the army turns its back.

Neighbours have got together to form groups to patrol each other's houses during the night; some of them carrying guns or using knives or poles as weapons.

In every corner there is a barricade and fires are set by the neighbours to warn the thieves not to trespass.

People are tough in the face of danger, but they easily break into tears when asked about the stress that they have being exposed to in the past few days; the constant threats of robbery and witnessing massive looting of supermarkets, just a few blocks from their homes. They are all afraid that they may be the next victims.

It is very sad that all the grief and sorrow caused by the earthquake has being increased by the behaviour of a few thieves.

Crime has increased to the extent that the population are more worried about their safety than the possibility of aftershocks and further damage to their dwellings.

But in general, the behaviour of the people cannot be tainted by a few thieves. Solidarity between neighbours and friends has being remarkable; people took strangers into their homes, found medicine for the sick, helped people get in contact with lost relatives, and other marvellous examples of solidarity.

Some foundations like have sent their volunteers to the streets to gather supplies, help with the traffic, among other tasks.

During the night the situation becomes more dangerous, despite the curfew imposed by the authorities. Most businesses have being emptied because of looting, but now there are groups burning down shops and supermarkets.

I heard a businessman on local radio say he used a weapon to get rid of looters during the night, although his store was already empty of goods.

Despite the limited amount of fuel available, I was surprised to see a large number of people driving vehicles. A lot of people are trying to get water, food and other supplies, or they are simply leaving the city.

Some drivers had literally their entire belongings inside or on top their cars, maybe fearing looting or maybe because their houses have been destroyed.

Ground zero

In the city centre, most of the media attention was centred on what has been called "ground zero", i.e. the building that fell to the ground. After 48 hours of work, only today firefighters were able to get inside the building - a few dead bodies had been taken out.

On Sunday night, the silence imposed by the curfew helped firefighters to hear sounds possibly coming from survivors inside the building.

The area around the office building that was tilted to one side was closed off, and it was very close to falling during a small aftershock this afternoon.

As we were leaving the city we saw the first trucks approach. To avoid attacks, they were painted white, and they came into the city after the curfew was imposed by the military authorities.

I was able to return to the city with my daughter and I found out that my friend, whose building is 'ground zero', was out of the city at the time of the earthquake, so he is OK

Ricardo was at his grandmother's house in Concepcion at the time of the earthquake. Concepcion is Chile's second largest city and is in the worst-hit area.

When the earthquake struck I woke up, ran to the door and found my grandmother standing in the hall. We knew what to do: get under a doorframe and wait - but this quake felt like it lasted for hours.

My grandmother's house has two storeys and is about 50 years old, but apart from a cracked wall, it withstood the tremors well.

During the quake the power was cut, so when it was finally over we went out into the dark street, lit only by the full moon.

The phones and the gas supply were also off. The water supply lasted a few hours longer.

People were gathering in the street, tuning into their car radios for local news.

With each aftershock - and there were more than 90 over the next few hours - we felt everything was going to start again.

Hospital shortages

An hour after the quake my sister - who also lives in Concepcion - rang to tell me that she and my other sister were OK.

Later that morning hospital staff asked for water because their supply was cut off. The A and E department was flooded so they were treating emergencies in the car park.



The sound of ambulances, police cars and firemen did not stop all day.

I saw some of the city when I went with my sister's boyfriend to pick up some things from his flat.

Most of the old houses were flattened, more shocking was all the new buildings with cracked walls and tilting floors.

One office building more than 20 storeys high was listing to one side, and another building, less than a year old, was completely flattened.

I learned later that an old classmate of mine lived there, I still don't know what's happened to him.

I managed to speak to the mother of my daughter who lives in Talcahuano, 15 minutes from Concepcion - they were OK.

Some debris fell on my baby's crib and broke it in half. Fortunately she was sleeping with her mum at that moment.

We spent the day trying to get hold of friends and family. We heard that prisoners had escaped from the jail, and started learning of the hundreds of people who had died.

On Sunday morning the looting began and the city became dangerous, so we decided to go to our parents in Los Angeles, a two-hour drive away.

The problem was finding fuel. Petrol stations had no electricity so couldn't pump. Some of them had been attacked by the mob, so the owners refused to use the emergency systems to provide fuel.The few petrol stations that were operating were giving priority to emergency vehicles. In a city called Lota - 50 km away from Concepcion - an angry mob had burned down a petrol station when they were denied fuel.


We managed to fill up our tanks because my sister's boyfriend works in the city council.

In the petrol station we heard traumatic stories from policemen who had been in a gun battle the previous night trying to control the mob.

We also spoke to a friend who knows the owner of a construction company. He is in despair over one of his apartment blocks which collapsed. He can't understand what went wrong and feels suicidal about the people who were inside.

As we were leaving the city we saw people queuing for water, supplies and fuel. We also saw people looting stores and supermarkets, walking away with TV sets and refrigerators.

The roads were OK, apart from a few cracks. Now, on Monday, Los Angeles is getting back to normal, but Concepcion is a different story.



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